Abby'sMom
01-02-2007, 06:35 PM
Okay, I feel like a Mom whose daughter has had a teen love affair and gotten herself pregnant. I feel so guilty! My baby was in heat. I knew that. We have a fenced in yard and I kept an eye on her everytime she went outside. About 4 weeks ago, my son left the only gate that does not have a lock on it open and my girl got out of the yard. I have no idea how long she was out, but it was probably not more than 1/2 hour. Our new next door neighbor brought her to the door - and that is how I found out that she was out. Coincidently, our new neighbor also has 2 male dogs and I don't believe they are neutered.
So here is my dilemma. I have not made up my mind as to whether or not I want to breed her. She just turned two in April and is of show quality, but I do not want to show her. When she goes into heat, it is not that messy and she is not a problem - until now.
The only thing that makes me worried is her appetite has changed. She used to eat her dog food just fine. We would give her her food, and also a couple pieces of her brothers food....he is 12 years old and eats a different brand which has softer chunks in it that she loves.
Well now she refuses to eat her food at all - I thought maybe there was something wrong with that food, so I dumped it and got some fresh and she still won't touch it. She only will eat her brother's food and of course any people food we offer to her. We have also noticed that she has put on some weight and she is very lazy lately. I was blaming the laziness on the winter and the weight gain on the Christmas cookies she has begged from the kids, but now I am beginning to wonder if there is more to this.
Is there a way to tell if she is pregnant without going to the vet? I mean if she was pregnant, of course we would get her vet care, but I don't want to pay for an office call and ultrasound, etc. if she is not. That is one reason why we have not started breeding her, we cannot afford it right now and I want to do it right.
Any helpful suggestions would be appreciated! Thanks.
So here is my dilemma. I have not made up my mind as to whether or not I want to breed her. She just turned two in April and is of show quality, but I do not want to show her. When she goes into heat, it is not that messy and she is not a problem - until now.
The only thing that makes me worried is her appetite has changed. She used to eat her dog food just fine. We would give her her food, and also a couple pieces of her brothers food....he is 12 years old and eats a different brand which has softer chunks in it that she loves.
Well now she refuses to eat her food at all - I thought maybe there was something wrong with that food, so I dumped it and got some fresh and she still won't touch it. She only will eat her brother's food and of course any people food we offer to her. We have also noticed that she has put on some weight and she is very lazy lately. I was blaming the laziness on the winter and the weight gain on the Christmas cookies she has begged from the kids, but now I am beginning to wonder if there is more to this.
Is there a way to tell if she is pregnant without going to the vet? I mean if she was pregnant, of course we would get her vet care, but I don't want to pay for an office call and ultrasound, etc. if she is not. That is one reason why we have not started breeding her, we cannot afford it right now and I want to do it right.
Any helpful suggestions would be appreciated! Thanks.